I don't find her annoying at all.

But if you're going to make a statement like that...at least share with us what you find annoying. Because that right there could be considered annoying.

Team Kate, here!!! Love her; love all the nuances of her character; she is real as real can be. Initially, Toby annoyed me--his neediness and such, but now I find him quite fun and charming. I wonder why you would find Kate's character annoying.